To prove my point, I will make an analogy. Right here. Right now. I know, didn’t see that coming, right?
So I was driving to work the other day and heard this new song on the radio called “Before you Fly.” It’s by Ginny Owens (who, by the way, is blind), one of my favorite Christian Singer/Songwriters. The chorus says:
"Spread your wings
in the sun
don’t give up
there’s more to come.
You will find
when you try
you always fall before you fly"
I really like this song, and not just because the phrase “take that to the bank” is in it. The song takes the picture of a bird learning to fly.
I actually witnessed this the other day. I was sitting out on the front porch, and saw a bird who was having some difficulty flying. He didn’t look small, so I didn’t think it was a baby. He would get a few fleeting moments of air, and then fell back down to the ground. I originally thought he was having wing trouble, perhaps an injured or broken wing (or too much turbulence perhaps?). But as I watched him, he kept trying and eventually his air time got longer and higher, and he began to soar for part of his flight. I realized now that he was having no problems with his wing but had never figured out the secret to flying. A few minutes later, I saw another bird doing the same; he got the ‘hang’ of it, too.
[Enter analogy stage right.]
When I heard this song on the radio in the car, my mind immediately went to those two birdies who fell several times before they learned how to fly. It was essential for them to fall a few times so that they could correct what they were doing wrong and perfect their skill. Without the falling part, they wouldn’t have had the flying part.
Isn’t the same thing true in life? We always fall before we fly. I actually just heard a sermon about this same thing on Sunday. I was visiting a church on the other side of the state and the pastor there talked about “failure.” (Perhaps not the best choice for a Father’s Day sermon...fail!) I’m seeing this theme of failure/falling popping up frequently in my life these days...that makes me a little nervous, especially in my internship summer!
Let’s be honest. Failure is inevitable. It’s part of the human condition. It is common, it can be devastating and discouraging, and is often misunderstood. But the good thing is, it’s not fatal, it’s not an enemy, and it’s not final. Michael Jordan, arguably the most famous athletic figure in America, said that his failure was actually the key to his success:
“I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot...and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”
You may have heard about how Post-It notes came into existence: Spencer Silver was trying to make a new adhesive for 3M that was super strong, but instead he made one that was so weak that it could be easily lifted off. Fail! Little did he know, the forgetful person’s best friend was born! Success!
Failure is something everyone experiences. But, undoubtedly, failure makes us all better at whatever we are trying to do. Without failure, we would never learn anything! Failure is never fun but without the pain of failure, success wouldn’t be as sweet.
To put a cherry on top, think about this: Jesus even guaranteed failure, imperfection, and trials. In John 16:33, Jesus says, “In this world you will have tribulation...” Basically, He says, “Nobody ever said it would be easy!” Thankfully, He doesn’t stop there. (If He did, we would be in trouble for sure...and I also wouldn’t have mentioned it in this post.) He goes on to say, “...But take heart! I have overcome the world.” Jesus has taken care of everything for us and pretty soon we won’t have to remember the failures of this world! As my Grandpa used to say, “Come quickly, Lord Jesus!” We have the fantastic hope of Heaven! WIN!
We will fail, but the more we fail, the more we learn. It would be a tragedy to be perfect at something but never learn anything new! Keep failing and keep learning...success only comes through failure! Fail on, my brethren, fail on.
So, essentially, each failure is kind of a success! In the long run, more failures = more successes! Epic Fail = Epic Win!
I don’t know, maybe this post was a failure...Or was it?